A Story of Survival, Forgiveness, and Grace

Written by Matt Carpenter

Valorie Stafford Lurry

 

EPISODE 256

Valorie Stafford Lurry's story is one of unimaginable trauma, incredible resilience, and the long road toward healing.

At just 14 years old, Valorie was kidnapped and held captive for 24 hours. She takes us through that terrifying experience and the years of healing that followed, sharing honestly about trauma, forgiveness, grace, and what it looks like to move forward after something that changes your life forever.

It’s a conversation about the things we carry, the complicated process of healing, and finding grace in places we never expected.

Show Notes

Val’s Website: https://vallurry.com/pages/round-the-bend

Round the Bend: https://amzn.to/4hY1o3f

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Follow Kaitlin on Instagram → @kaitlingraceelliott

 

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